Private Escorts vs. Brothels: How to Choose?
For those new to the scene, a licensed brothel is often the recommended starting point. The main difference between the two is the environment and the selection process. In a brothel, you can enter a dedicated "bar" area where you can have a drink and chat with the women on display. This "bar situation" allows you to talk to several women before making a choice, which can ease the pressure of a one-on-one initial meeting. A brothel is a professional environment where the women are there to make money and ensure you are comfortable. You'll quickly get a feel for a sex worker's style by her demeanor: some offer a more impersonal, "porn star" experience, while others provide a flirtatious and accommodating "Girlfriend Experience."
In contrast, a private escort works independently, often from her own apartment or a hotel. This requires direct communication and can be less comfortable for a first-timer.
Are There Quality Establishments in Dunedin, or Should I Travel?
The quality and variety of establishments are highly dependent on location. Larger cities like Auckland and Wellington offer a wider selection of places and workers due to higher demand. In smaller cities like Dunedin, the choice is more limited. It is best to call brothels ahead of time to inquire about the girls available that day. Be direct on the phone about your preferences, such as a specific look or desired activities. The manager can then let you know when the best girls for you will be available.
What Can I Expect from the Experience?
Entering a brothel is generally a professional and straightforward experience. The front desk staff will explain the services and prices. The atmosphere is calm and transactional. Beyond the obvious physical act, the quality of the experience often depends on open communication. The women are there to make their clients happy.
A typical session often follows a specific order of business: a spa or shower, followed by a hand job, blow job, sexual intercourse, and another shower. Many sex workers will join you in the shower to ensure you are clean and to get things started. However, the order can be flexible depending on your preferences.
If you have specific requests like kissing, oral sex on her, anal sex, or BDSM, it's essential to ask upfront. Sex workers will either agree to these or direct you to someone who specializes in them. It's also important to note that condoms are provided and used for all sexual contact involving fluids (oral and penetrative sex).
How Much Does an Hour Cost on Average?
The cost of services in New Zealand varies, but a standard one-hour session typically ranges from NZD 150 to NZD 250. This price covers the basic services. Remember, additional requests often incur extra charges. For example, if you want to explore more specialized acts, discuss the cost beforehand to avoid any misunderstandings.
Ultimately, this is a job for the sex worker. Most want to make their clients happy, but like any customer service role, some may be less invested. Treating your sex worker with respect will most likely result in a more positive and satisfying experience.
